zoo siab koj lub hnub yug, Grandma!

Nag hmo, Kuv niam tais Alvina M. Ellis nee Mosblech yuav muaj lawm 100 xyoo. Me nyuam yug hauv. Louis, Missouri saum ntuj 15, 1916, Grandma yog lub Xya me nyuam kaum plaub. Nws yuav tau ib tug me nyuam xwb nyob rau hauv 1938 thiab yuav tau ob tug me nyuam, Kuv niam thiab niam hlob Maureen.

Grandma muaj cawv loj rau kuv cov vivncaus thiab kuv vim nws thiab kuv yawg Gilbert Ellis nyob tsis dhau ib mais ntawm peb lub tsev nyob rau txoj kev Osceola. Yawg muas heev ntawm lub pas dej Tishomingo rau 1976, uas tau tso cai rau tsev neeg tseem yuav tau ua ke rau Sundays.

Txawm li cas los, Grandma sib sib zog tsa tus cawv biggest ntawm kuv cov vivncaus thiab kuv, Thaum twg niam rov mus ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv 1980. Alcoholism yog rhuav tau kuv niam thiab txiv neej, li ntawd, niam rov mus ua hauj lwm thiab Grandma pib me kuv ob tug viv ncaus thiab kuv.

Kuv tau kawm ib xyoo rov hauv thiab paub li cas cawv heev rau kuv txiv. Paub txog lub neej yuav tsis kav ntev, Kuv pib yeeb kuv npau taws thiab siab. Yog hais tias nws twb tsis rau Grandma, Kuv yeej ntseeg tau tias kuv yuav tau ua ib tug hluas delinquent.

Grandma yog tsis muaj cov uas. Kuv paub tias nws yog ib tug zog 6 lub hlis rau nws. Nws yeej tsis tsa ceg tes rau peb ua ntej thiab tam sim no yuav tsum tau discipline ib chim preteen. Kuv ib txwm hais Grandma yog tus thawj martial artist hauv tsev. Nws yuav wield rab ntaus yoov xws li ib tug samurai warrior. Tom qab 6 lub hlis, nws muaj kuv rov qab rau kab. Kuv tsis tau nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab cov qib kuv rov los.

Kuv leej muam Sheri pheej hais tias kom kuv loj hlob tias nws yuav tsis muab rau cov neeg zoo siab thiab ua tej yam uas nws paub Grandma tsis pom zoo li. Nws xav txog dab tsi Grandma xav hais tias yog nws paub es nws nres nws tawm mus rau pawg neeg.

Grandma enjoyed siv sij hawm los nrog yawg. Tsis zoo li ib co niam txiv, leej twg ua thaum xyoo, koj yeej pom Grandma thiab yawg los ntxaum raug zoo li cov xyoo dhua. Nkawd ob leeg hais sib yog lawv phooj ywg zoo tshaj. Thiab yog koj disrespected Grandma, koj zoo dua muab rau koj tus plig rau tus tswv vim koj backside sawv daws khoom kev ib rau yawg.

Grandma twb tau kev dub muag thiab zoo heev nyob rau hauv cov tom qab uas txhawb sawv daws. Thaum nws nrhiav ib yam li nws lub hnub yug, nws yeej tsis nyiam kiag li. Zuj zus nyob ib tsev nrog patriarchal 13 kwvtij yuav tau coj Grandma yuav nyiam lwm tus tsom teeb.

Peb xiam Grandma rau lub ob hlis ntuj 12, 1991, ob peb lub hlis paub txaj muag rau nws lub hnub yug 75th. Nws thiab yawg sib me ntsis lawm 52 xyoo. Nws tsis devastated tsev neeg, feem ntau yog kuv yawg. Nws tuag coj tus txiv neej haum siab kuv twb puas paub mus nws lub hauv caug.

Ib tug phooj ywg thiab cov pastor tus qauv sij hawm ntau tshaj qhov nws xav thaum kev pam tuag. Nws yeej hais tias nws yuav qhia li cas ib tug neeg thov nyob rau hauv los ntawm qhov tshuaj tiv thaiv ntawm tsev neeg tom cov pam tuag. Lawv cov grieving lawv sawv daws yuav tuaj los yog lawv kub siab rau tej khoom? Tsis muaj leej twg tuaj txog khoom ntawm Grandma kev pam tuag. Peb yeej tu nws. Dua li ntawm cov zaj ntawm 25 xyoo, peb tseem muaj ib lub qhov nyob rau hauv tsev neeg uas yeej ib txwm tsis tau kho.

Ntawm koj cov me nyuam, 9 xeeb ntxwv thiab xeeb ntxwv ntau poj suav, ua tsaug, Grandma. Koj ces yeej yuav tsis muaj.

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